31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 31

This is our last and final day! I hope it's been as much fun for you as it has been for me!

In this series we spent 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Make out

Remember when you were dating, engaged and newly married and you'd actually kiss for longer than 5 seconds?! Rekindle that passion!! Go make out with your husband!! (just brush your teeth first)

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 30

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Game Day

Go to a game with your husband. Football, basketball, baseball or whatever game he likes!  My hubby is always asking me to go with him to our pro-football team's games. You heard here first folks..I'm actually going to go with him. :)

31 Days of Loving your Husband- Day 29

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Something special

Today see if you can get him something special. We ladies love to get flowers unexpectedly. Do something similar for your man. A tool set maybe? Duck call? Game tickets? Whatever that "special" thing may be to him. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 28

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

One cold beverage coming right up..

You made him his favorite dinner and dessert now it's time for his favorite beverage. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 27

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Foot Rub

Give your man a well deserved foot or back rub.

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 26

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Hand over the remote

Tonight let your hubby choose the channel even if it is Storage Wars. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 25

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Car duty

I don't know about your hubby but my hubby loves a clean car. So tonight give his car a little detailing. Vacuum, wipe down, and throw away any trash. And if you have time take it to a car wash. And if you really want to go the extra mile, put some gas in it. He'll appreciate it. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 24

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Errand Run

If you have the time run one of the errands that he usually does. For example, pick up his dry cleaning for him. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 23

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Just me and you

If you can arrange child care, surprise your hubby with a night in without the kids. Enjoy the quiet! 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 22

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Surprise Weekend

If you can plan a surprise weekend getaway with him. Arrange a sitter, with either friends or family. Check out special deals on websites such as priceline.com. You don't need to fly any where, you just need to get away just the two of you. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 21

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

What are his dreams? 

Spend time today asking him what is dreams are? Where does he see your family in 5 years? What are his fears? Ask him how you can help his dreams, hopes and desires for the family come true. 

31 Days to Loving your Husband- Day 20

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

I am my lover and my lover is mine

Tonight read through the Song of Solomon together. Spend time praying that the Lord will bless your intimate life. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 19

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Dad

What are his best qualities as a dad, tell him. You can either write a letter, text, email or just verbally tell him that he's a great dad. Get very specific, for example; remember that time when Johnny was throwing a fit and you showed incredible control, grace and love...I was so proud of you.  

If your husband is more of a stand offish dad, still try very hard to find something he is good at and harp on it. Don't go into a list of things he doesn't do well or what you wish he would do. That will counteract the point of this exercise. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 18

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Chore time

Today before he gets home from work do a chore around the house that he normally does. For example my husband is usually the one that takes out the trash and cleans up dinner. What a fun surprise when he gets home to find the trash cans already emptied! 

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31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 17

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Hot lunch date

If you can arrange childcare (again see if you and a friend can swap out) meet your husband for a quick lunch date in whatever capacity he's able to. Even if that means eating fast food in the parking lot of his work. Make sure you dress up, put some make-up on and for goodness sake don't show up in sweats! :)  

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 16

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

Time to do some re-organizing and re-designing in the bedroom

My personal belief is that your bedroom needs to be the least cluttered room in the house. Do not make your bedroom the place where you store and stuff everything that doesn't have a place. Remove any pictures of the kids (the bedroom should be a kid-free zone), any children's toys, and clutter. Display pictures from your wedding day, frame love notes, and anything else you can think of to make it a romantic, kid-free haven. 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 15

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

This gift's for you

What is your husband's favorite place for a treat? Starbucks, maybe? Whatever a treat would be for him go get a $5, $10 or whatever you can afford and tape it to his steering wheel or someplace he'll find it. 

31 Days to Loving your Husband- Day 14

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

 NO Nagging 

Today try to be very intentional in your speech and tone with your husband. Absolutely NO nagging or put down, ladies. :) 

31 Days of Loving your Husband - Day 13

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

NO, NO

What do you always say no to... watching a football game with him, jumping in the hot tub on a cold night, going to a concert with him... today say yes! 

31 Days of Loving your Husband- Day 12

In this series we will be spending 31 days intentionally loving on our husbands. Hopefully creating new habits in our marriages that will last a lifetime. Will you join us?

A little bit of honesty

Ladies this one may be a tough one for you but it is so important. Sit down with your husband after the kids have gone to bed or before they get up. Ask him how you can respect/love him better? Ask him if there has been a time recently that you have been disrespectful or hurtful to him. We may not like what he has to say. This is not a time to let pride win, this is a time to humble yourselves and ask for forgiveness. Don't start a fight, talk down to him or bring up his issues. PLEASE PRAY BEFORE YOU HAVE THIS CONVERSATION. Pray that the Lord will open your heart to hear what you're husband has to say. And that you will seek repentance and forgiveness and not try to get the last word in.